This past weekend I had the unbelievable blessing of living the ManRise camp up close and personal. It all started a year ago after attending the opening dinner at the ManRise camp. My wife received an email looking for folks to attend the dinner. She thought it was something right up my alley. So not knowing at all what I was getting myself into, I headed off to the dinner on a Thursday night in late July, 2008. My life has been changed ever since.
You see, ManRise camp is part of our urban outreach opportunities at Hope. We host the Manassas high school football team for 4 days. That’s right, 65 young African American males and their coaching staff leave the Caldwell Community for the comforts of Hope Church. While at camp, the guys do plenty of football stuff. But the real value is the life lessons they learn while at Hope. Thru faith based teachings, they talk about how to be a better dad, son, and teammate. The learn how to treat a woman. But most importantly, they get another chance to learn about our heavenly Father.
So after meeting three of the guys at camp in July, 2008, I was hooked. The boys display such character and quality you can’t help but be impressed. And when they realize how much we care for them at Hope and are willing to show them some love and support, it immediately becomes a win-win for all of us.
We organized a small group of folks from Hope and went down to BTW stadium to attend several of their games. We showed them some support just by being there, and they showed us some love by recognizing us in the stands. But the highlight was being invited to join them on the field for their post game prayer. The boys had put together a magical season and ended the year at 9-1. So when they lost in a heart breaker in the first round of the playoffs, we all cried together.
Earlier this year, the coaches approached me about coordinating this year’s camp. Without hesitation, I jumped at the opportunity. After all, having been blessed to spend time with this group of young men, how could I say no?
What a weekend Camp turned out to be. I got to get up each day at 6:00 AM and have lights out at midnight. In between that, I got to drive a tram, set up the football fields, install temporary showers, fill water bottles, run the chain gang, sit in on chalk chalks, be a small group leader, and eat like you wouldn’t believe. And that’s just the beginning.
The weekend is about giving the boys a chance to grow closer as a team, work on their football skills, and grow as a young man. But what the weekend is really about is watching the volunteers fall in love with these guys and leave Hope so much better off for having volunteered their time.
These are quality young men working hard to be better football players. But more importantly, they are working hard to become better young men. Or as the theme of camp focused on … to become Uncommon Men. Young men that really begin to learn how much God loves them. And why it’s so important to let God into their lives. These boys face struggles on a daily basis that most of will never really appreciate. But they face it straight on and keep moving forward. They are working hard to be better teammates, better students, better sons, better fathers, better leaders, and better role models. But what they are really working to be are better sons of our Lord and Savior.
For me personally, it was a weekend I will never forget. These boys gave me an experience of a life time. So yes, we will work hard to get the word out and get folks to come out to some games and cheer them on to victory. But win or lose on the field, these boys are well on their way to being winners in life.
So to the Manassas Tigers football team and coaching staff, I say THANKS. Thank you for making my life richer by allowing me to be a part of your life.
May God bless you and keep you safe this season. Go Tigers!!!!